Aloha UTOPIA members,

On November 2^nd, Ni, Kaui, Jaimie and I attended a weekend retreat in Maui sponsored by the Maui AIDS Foundation and the Nat’l Native American AIDS Prevention Center. We were chosen by the Fono to represent UTOPIA Hawai‘i at this retreat. My experience at Ke‘anae was one that I will never forget even though it lasted but a day. From the time that we arrived at the campsite to the time we left, the feeling of fellowship and friendship was everywhere. Old friends were seen once more and new friendships were created.

Tui Silva headed the workshop that I attended. It allowed me to spend time to get to know others within our community, to listen and learn from their own life experiences and how they are dealing with being either gay or transgendered and Polynesian. The closing of the retreat was very tearful, yet thought provoking, as Hinalei Wong reminded us that we must be content with ourselves, always remember others who have had a positive impact on our lives, and know that with others by our side, we grow stronger.

This was my first retreat and will not be my last as I am anxious to see the exciting things that other Foundations and UTOPIA have planned for future retreats.

- Benjamin Tuiolosega Balete